Do you think if a random sample of 50 people who frequent this website were all thrown into the same vacation resort for a 3-day weekend fetish party, we'd all have so much in common? Not me.
Even controlling for the over-representation of males, I think there might be very little we'd want to do together.
I can tell it from having read comments here for years. Unlike the vanilla world where a few of the same, basic sexual practices are good to keep a majority of people happy, the fetish world, even our small corner of it, is very differentiated and specific:
I could go on, but you get the idea. Do you agree?
Even controlling for the over-representation of males, I think there might be very little we'd want to do together.
I can tell it from having read comments here for years. Unlike the vanilla world where a few of the same, basic sexual practices are good to keep a majority of people happy, the fetish world, even our small corner of it, is very differentiated and specific:
- First, those who need tickling to be light and fun would separate from those who tend to want it intense.
- The feet people would naturally diverge from those who prefer elsewhere or everywhere.
- Some need verbal teasing to be involved. Others either can't or don't do verbal teasing.
- Some want no restraints ever. Others prefer tight restraints.
- Some insist on safe words. Others actively don't want safe words.
- Some either want no guys involved, or no other guys involved. But some guys fantasize most about other guys tickling their female.
- Some need the 'lee to be thin and/or attractive. Some prefer full-figured 'lees, and/or don't care how they look, or would even prefer an average or below average-looking 'lee.
- Some want 'lees that have a look and personality that seems innocent. Some prefer lots of tattoos, piercings and alternative hair coloring.
I could go on, but you get the idea. Do you agree?